Why the Malay mindset is not the one that needs changing


WE keep beating our chest about meritocracy being the solution to our problems but what is that problem? I often hear that Singapore has been a roaring success because of egalitarian policies and meritocracy. It definitely is a lovely place to live in and grow a family in but it has its own set of flaws. The late Lee Kuan Yew may have spoken about racial harmony but his legacy is a pseudo-royal dynasty that controls Singapore to this day.

Perhaps those who keep harping on about meritocracy are upset that without meritocracy their efforts to build their own dynasty is hampered.

“I think everybody should be soul-searching to fix ourselves. It’s so heart-warming that even in this regard, the Malay thinkers are focusing on fixing themselves and their communities first and not the migrant communities.”

I’m tired of being a Malaysian under the current set of circumstances because as long as I’m in Malaysia, I’m forced by the tides of humanity to accept that I’m Indian… but that could not be further from the truth. My best life experiences and most beautiful life-changing perspectives have come from Malay people and the people who live in the jungles of Malaysia.

Why don’t we look at the modern perspective of this amazing culture for a minute?

1. The Indians and Chinese, as long as they hold on to their cultural roots, they are descendants of immigrants.

These two migrant cultures to Malaysia are ancient and as a culture we are influenced by India and China even today. How reliable or loyal would a Malaysian Chinese or Indian be to the Malaysian state? What would their biases be in matters pertaining to state security?

Will the Malay be judged by a set of values imported and defined by these other nations or will the Indian and Chinese migrant be able to espouse Malay values intrinsically?

2. Indians and Chinese who have migrated to Malaysia have a culture of hard work and sacrifice to better themselves financially and socially. The Malay culture of self-sacrifice and caring for each other socially seems like a simpleton ideology in comparison.

Every non-Malay wedding and social event that I’ve been to has been about the pressure to show what we can afford and about belittling those have-nots.

The cultured Indian and Chinese in Malaysia generally carry this mental ledger as a balance sheet of who is ahead and how far we need to run to catch up. We’re really very equipped to be ahead of the pack and win with meritocracy.

Meritocracy will make Malaysia rich and send our foreign exchange rates soaring, but will it make the Malay culture a better one? Will the rich Malay grow to despise the poor as we migrants do our less well-heeled?

3. Even with 70% of the population skewed towards one particular ideology of Islam and Malay privilege, the migrant minorities do not want to agree. What then will happen if the migrant minorities win leading positions and control the government?

Democracy is about majority rule, even if that rule is biased or unfair. Perhaps we have not been listening hard enough to our brothers and sisters in this land. They have a vote too and it’s their wish that we keep the status quo. We may talk about strategic future prospects and dreams of prosperity but who can predict that? The Covid-19 pandemic should at least have crushed the idea that we are always in control.

Perhaps to a culture as generous and socially responsible as the Malay, they would rather be in a position to give us our living than being forced into submission, just because their thoughts aren’t always centred around getting one up on the other person.

4. As a social communication style, the migrant minorities have grown accustomed to ridiculing Malays, saying that they are all inefficient. Malays have had to espouse the ruthless “get ahead at all cost” mentality of the migrant communities to give hope in their own country to other Malays.

I mix around with enough non-Malays to be able to verify that this is the case. We all seem to have a better solution to every problem. We’re better at every field and every Malay person has arrived at where he/she is on crutches. It’s mean and my hands are not clean. It’s taken me years to wash off most of the racism from my brain but it’s a daily struggle.

We have essentially turned ourselves into bullies and I know the slate is not clean on either side, but it’s embarrassing that we’ve turned on each other in this way. We can only fix ourselves and it’s my honest belief that when the Malay person prays five times a day, they are resetting their humanity each time. How about the rest of us with our new western values of science? We spend hours being negative about each other each day. How do we reset our humanity and how often should we be doing that?

5. Even in corruption, all races have been involved and have gained from it. We focus on those in power who have taken but what about those who give? Powerful businessmen who threaten those in power to accept their bribes or face retribution via a shift in support and funding?

I’ve been amazed at some of the ruthless values espoused by some Malays in power to get ahead. Even more amazing is how they keep getting support from the Malay person on the ground and the non-Malays in business. The answer dawned on me that this is just coming from years of being looked down upon for being kind and giving.

Where our own racist perspectives come into focus is when you realise these corrupt Malays are only obvious to our racist eyes. If we look beyond to the entire group of people involved in their corruption, we see Malaysian and international figures of every race.

Corruption is a human condition as is theft and envy. Queen Elizabeth I was not known as the “Pirate Queen” because she and her countrymen played fair in gaining their riches.

This new money grabbing, ruthless mindset is our own doing. Will we be able to turn the tide? It will not be someone with a meritocracy-based, get-ahead-at-any-cost culture who will be turning the tide, that’s for sure.

I know I’m generalising in my analysis; not every Malay is generous and not every migrant is mean. We, however, are social animals and our social settings often define us as a polity.

Socially, I honestly believe we have much to learn from the Malays. They have tried to share their culture with us for generations but our societies’ constant ridiculing of theirs has got in the way of our assimilation.

As an organisation wins due to a superior and positive work culture, so will a nation succeed if the combined culture is a unifying factor to all. The Malay people already had one such culture. Perhaps we should all learn from them and show them that we’re worthy of being a part of this country.

Perhaps we need not see Malaysia from our western-trained eye of egalitarian meritocracy or our migrant view of working hard to get ahead, but from the Malay perspective of being a caring community. If the Malay kampung social values can be used to encompass Malaysia, we will no longer need to be rich in wealth to be successful. Being rich in “budi” or good deeds and manners is more than enough. – November 5, 2020.

* Ramesh Ganapathy reads The Malaysian Insight.

* This is the opinion of the writer or publication and does not necessarily represent the views of The Malaysian Insight. Article may be edited for brevity and clarity.



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Comments


  • Another kiasu theorist in the mold of Ridhuan Abdullah. Views that retard the nation's hopes for progress, improvement in our quest to be a developed nation.

    Posted 3 years ago by Panchen Low · Reply

    • It's taken me a while to ponder on some of this feedback. Brickbats I've delivered in the past and so I deservingly accept these from those who feel stung by my words today. What I've been trying to figure out is where so much anger comes from. Perhaps it's our insufficient politicised history and current affairs news that constantly puts blame on others and suggests that punishment is the reward for failure.. a very British boarding school mindset that has infected our thinking here for generations.

      Please accept my apology if I've hurt your feelings, this article was written to make us think and climb out of these racial classifications the British left us identifying with.

      By Malay, I have always meant the culture, not the race of people. Persons with a Malay background can be devoid of the culture "Melayu"; as easily as persons of non Malay background can carry this Melayu culture in their hearts even if they move away from the Malay homelands.

      Posted 2 months ago by Ramesh Ganapathy · Reply

  • The stupidity and shallow mindedness of this writer is beyond belief. Infantile and puerile ideas presented in a pseudo intellectual manner. I'm not even sure if this guy is a Malaysian. Anyway it's good as a piece of comedy and satire. By the way Ramesh if you sincerely believe in the shit you wrote then GOD help you.

    Posted 3 years ago by Jeevaraj Nadarajah · Reply

    • You are exactly what Ramesh described. Congratulations!

      Posted 3 years ago by Ahmad Fuad Ahmad Zamri · Reply

    • Thank you Fuad

      Posted 2 months ago by Ramesh Ganapathy · Reply

  • So by your logic, your parents shouldn't have worked hard to raise you and give you an education? What an ungrateful retard.

    Posted 3 years ago by A Subscriber · Reply

    • insults, punishment and pain as a reward. Sorry to have inspired such feelings in you.

      Posted 2 months ago by Ramesh Ganapathy · Reply

  • By not bringing up useful ideas for the ones that whine all day, this writer is not helping but aggravating the predicament of which this nation is in today.

    Posted 3 years ago by Tanahair Ku · Reply

    • Dear Tanahair Ku, the only idea I'm hoping to bring forth is that we belong to a culture that believes in self realisation, self discipline and self control. Why throw that away for some western idea that these ancient concepts are detrimental to development?

      Posted 2 months ago by Ramesh Ganapathy · Reply

  • Just forgot to add earlier that the writer is a racist and guilty of propagating racial stereotypes in his writing. Seriously needs to go for classes to correct his racist ideas.

    Posted 3 years ago by Jeevaraj Nadarajah · Reply

    • Sorry to have hurt your feelings @Jeevaraj. I was hoping to open the eyes of those of us who judge Malay people practicing their own beautiful culture. I believe the instances I mentioned and the bigotry is real and exists. Perhaps we're not all ready to be reminded of our worst.

      Posted 2 months ago by Ramesh Ganapathy · Reply

  • For a facts, living in Malaysia for half a-century, most of your points are flaw, 'malays doesn't show-off'? Joker, ask Rosmah! I agree, greed is human nature, thus the weak will always take than give!

    Posted 3 years ago by Da Nya · Reply

    • Sorry to have upset you Da Nya. The Malay culture I speak of is something most of carry in us and is an essence of this land we've called home for generations. I didn't mean the race.

      Posted 2 months ago by Ramesh Ganapathy · Reply